Marlon Brando

I keep a picture of a young Marlon Brando up in my office to (jokingly) remind myself that.... no matter HOW hot, HOW rich, HOW famous, HOW successful a man is at one time in his life.... he can end up fat, ugly, unpopular and poor (like Marlon did). So he better be a hell-of-a-man to you so that if everything else goes away... he is still worth keeping around. My friend said the other day at lunch... "I had to figure out how I wanted to be loved." I can't stop thinking about her statement. How do I want to be loved? Besides just LOVED WELL....that is obvious. How do I want to be told or shown that I am loved? Do we ever know?